I never, for one second, thought about staying. I spent the next day moving money around, closing joint accounts, and shopping online for places to live. We were still in the aftermath of a snowstorm so I applied for an apartment nearby sight unseen.  That’s how serious I was about getting out of there. Why wasn’t…

I chose to live my life after I learned of his affair.  The horrifying news jolted me out of my zombie-like state and into action.  It happened on a Friday night before a huge snowstorm in February and he was on a weekend trip with the boys.  After getting the kids to bed, I scrolled…